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Not knowing what love was.
How it all started
2022 was when a 4-year-long relationship + first love ended. It was one that never felt wrong enough for a breakup but also never felt right enough deep within.
I was uptight and unsure, constantly questioning what true love was.
Does unconditional love really exist?
Admitting that the relationship wasn’t right took a lot of effort. The struggle was having to overcome my belief that breaking up without a “good enough reason” would make one a bad person.
Eventually, the relationship ended messily and the journey of discovering unconditional self-love began.
A battle with bulimia & life situations to find self-worth.
Leaving a prestigious dance team, which had been a significant part of life, presented another challenge. Conflicts in values with some team members led to frequent confrontations and feelings of alienation.
Being a people pleaser, I thought I could change myself to fit in since dance was my pride, soul, and basically, my entire identity. Yet constant forcing and trying only worsened my relationship with myself, escalating my binge eating disorder into full-blown bulimia (other factors involved as well, shared in the next section).
While trying to problem-solve, I learnt the hard way that while some people may genuinely empathise with you in private, it’s normal for people to choose not to step up and speak their truth.
That’s when I understood
I have been waiting desperately for someone to rescue me, but that person does not exist outside of me.
I can choose to not stay as a damsel-in-distress.
I have the strength to fight for my truth.
I have the power to walk away when I don’t receive the respect I deserve.
As I committed to healing, more underlying issues began to surface.
Instead of fulfilling the urge to find another pursuit to validate my worth, it became clear that I needed to heal, slow down, and for my own sake, stop trying to rush life.
For the first time, I gave myself the space to dig deeper into the emotions that had been avoided:
the shame that I had around my “big” body,
the resentment that I put on myself as a daughter to maintain peace in a family that struggled with generational trauma and alcoholism.
2022- the year of total transformation
I learnt to communicate my truth and build healthy boundaries for my healing.
Building walls to create space and became aware of my unconscious limiting beliefs were essential. Coaching and therapy played a crucial role in fully committing to personal growth.
Reading self-help books became a refuge whenever I felt lonely and misunderstood by people around me.
Slowly, I invited myself into the world of personal development and dived even deeper into the science of life coaching and spirituality.
In 2023, I got my life coaching certification under Lito Labs.
Life coaching
changed my world
but it was not quite it, yet.
Life coaching has taught me how to rewire my beliefs and master my mind and emotions, allowing for authentic expression. However, pursuing deepest desires and achieving dreams felt challenging due to persistent remnants of the old self. Despite addressing my traumas, manifesting the future of my dreams still lacked direction.
Understanding the science of attraction and its application to proactively shape desired outcomes brought clarity. Attraction coaching, which combines the science of attraction with mindset coaching, facilitates a profound shift in embracing the ideal, thriving self.
Attraction coaching, merging the science of attraction with mindset coaching to connect with our highest self liberates us from the identities that are rooted in our psyche, empowering us to embrace our ideal, thriving selves wholeheartedly. This shift has empowered me to take bold steps to create the life of my dreams.
Today, I’m dedicated to walking the talk and creating these transformative journeys with my clients.
I will be your biggest cheerleader and support, standing by your side through every uncertainty, stagnancy, and challenge that comes our way.